CHALLENGING MALE CHARACTER
Okay....so here's the thing fellas'...broken women don't play games.
They've been lied to, they've been used, they've been manipulated, they've been taken advantage of, and some of them have even had a good man and lost it.....so they know what one looks like.
I use the word "test" (and they're going to test you).
All I'm saying is they're going to challenge your character.
They're not getting together at the "Quarterly Broken Women's Club" meeting, and giving out a handbook with a bunch of tests and exams for you to run through....don't be that dense.
What I'm saying is she's gotten extremely adept at weeding out the bullshit.
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She's gotten very good at examining how you're going to respond to certain situations, and she's not going to just take your word for it. She's been down that road and this is where it's gotten her.
So to that end, one of the first things she's going to do is test your integrity. Do NOT get caught in a lie with this woman. She has been disappointed so many times...she will not put up with it.
Do not take offense to the fact that she is going to challenge your word, and examine you emotionally.
This woman's been through a lot....she carries a lot of pain with her daily, and she needs to know whether or not you're gonna' hold up for her.
She needs to know whether or not you're going to be her rock. And then she's gonna' challenge your over-all staying power, because she's clear on what she wants and what she needs in a man.
If you don't communicate with her and understand this, then you will find yourself wondering what the hell happened.
Tracy Noble
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