"To whom it may concern,

This is a reference letter for the women who never got one.

The women who skipped days without notice. Who showed up late but still left early. Who spent all day with one eye on their phones.

Some might have called it poor performance. But what if those moments had told a different story? The story of someone experiencing domestic violence.

One in three workers will experience domestic violence in their lifetime.*

You many have seen her on The Practice, Boston Legal or numerous films. Here she shares her experiences with toxic relationships and how to extricate yourself from the drama and pain.

www.herchildfreelife.com

Every childfree woman has heard it. The backhanded comments, the guilt trips disguised as “concern,” the relentless insistence that her life is incomplete without children. It’s wild how confidently people will question your happiness, your love, and your purpose simply because you chose not to repr

10 Things You Should Stop Saying to Childfree people

Nov 7

Every childfree woman or person has heard it. The backhanded comments, the guilt trips disguised as “concern,” the relentless insistence that her life is incomplete without children. It’s wild how confidently people will question your happiness, your love, and your purpose simply because you chose not to reproduce.

So, consider this my public service announcement — or maybe my therapy session in writing. Here are 10 things you should stop saying to childfree women, and what we’re really thinking when we hear them. Spoiler: it’s not what you expect.

#1 - “you’ll change your mind some day.”