Violent Relationships-The Red Flags. Advice from the RCMP


They show resentment or anger over their partner’s friendships with others. They try to find out and control who their partner hangs out with.

Cyber stalking

They call or text excessively or stalk on social media. They don’t stop until the person responds.


They control different aspects of their partner’s life such as when and where they can go out.

Street stalking

They follow their partner in public, or have them followed by someone else. They watch over them all the time, especially when out with other friends.


They frequently humiliate their partner or make them feel unworthy. They criticize and belittle their partner or what’s important to them.

Threatening suicide or violence

They threaten to hurt their partner or that person’s friends. They threaten or try to commit suicide if their partner leaves them.

Our appreciation to the RCMP and writer Patricia Vasylchuk for this valuable information.

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Jonathan McCormick holds a Black Belt in Combat Martial Arts. He is a U.S Marine (Inactive), trained with famed CIA operative Rex Applegate and Ultimate Fighter Champion Royce Gracie and was the director of the Institute of Defense Tactics. He is a former member of the American Society of Law Enforcement Trainers and worked with members of various law enforcement agencies in the areas of suspect control and officer safety. He has written for law enforcement magazines BlueLine ( and Twenty-Four-Seven and has been a guest writer for the Vancouver Province. “Wyoming Secrets”, “30,000 Secrets”, “Santa Barbara Secrets” and The “J” Team Series are inspirational novels which focus on women who feel overwhelmed by the threat of violence in their lives. View the Series
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1 Response to Violent Relationships-The Red Flags. Advice from the RCMP

  1. Many thanks to Canada’s federal police force for sharing this information.
    Please share with everyone, even if they don’t appear to have a problem, they may know someone who is.

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