When do you know?
How about when he farts in front of you?
Or, asks you to dinner and you end up at a fast food joint?
You convince him to take you to a fine-dining restaurant. You take time choosing the perfect outfit, and he arrives in jeans, unshaven and wearing a ball cap.
Substance abuse and violence require an immediate exit.
Katherine Heigl knows: Kathrine Heigl knows a loser when she meets him.
All of this and you still have a relationship? Why?
Here is Darla Murray with Cosmopolitan magazine.
“You hate the sound of him chewing and are a little bummed he still doesn’t know your favorite flower (peonies!), but are those deal breakers or just signs of being with someone for a bajillion years? According to Marina Voron, licensed marriage and family therapist, relationship red flags have less to do with actual behavior and more to do with the feelings and intentions behind them. Here, Voron shares six reasons it may be time to cue Adele and call it quits.”
3. Your S.O. becomes disrespectful.
When you start being spiteful, critical, or belittling of one another, it’s no bueno. Contempt is the no. 1 predictor of relationship combustion, Voron says, and it’s something that couples may not notice if it happens gradually over time. Look for mean-spirited sarcasm — that’s a huge red flag.
Cosmo shares their choices for RED FLAGS.