“After you left, how was your life different?”

These women share their stories. Please share your experience at the bottom of the post so others know of the progress that can be made through their journey.

Domestic Shelters, (https://www.domesticshelters.org/help?gclid=Cj0KCQiAmsrxBRDaARIsANyiD1pDaCSUtTqtHayrJG36SZdwZYgUoEFMDWCfhGXz3woMOhkTZLqtXvgaAl1rEALw_wcB#?page=1) thank you for sharing these stories of survival and the encouragement they generate for other women and teens. https://www.facebook.com/210063369158387/posts/1520577894773588/

Contolling men😬
Far too many women live with this terror daily n fail to acquire the means to leave.
“Bad Moms” portrays women who shed that baggage.
Please share with every woman you know. If she is not affected, she may know a woman who is. https://www.jonathanmccormick.com/controlling-men-and-how-to-regain-your-life/

You turfed your abuser, now what?

Healing will take time and patience. Assessing what went wrong in your abusive relationship can consume you. Don’t do it. Shit happens. We make mistakes and end up with the wrong person. https://www.jonathanmccormick.com/you-turfed-your-abuser-now-what/

Changing locations, getting a new job and moving on works. Not immediately, but it does according to many women who have, unfortunately, been in your shoes.

Read what process other women have used and now enjoy their freedom https://www.jonathanmccormick.com/you-turfed-your-abuser-now-what/

A friend had this experience and did just that; moved, new job etc. but she found she was making the same mistakes, being drawn to losers…again. A female friend suggested she engage in some of the same activities listed below. She gave up on trying and found what she was seeking playing volleyball at the park on a Sunday with girlfriends.

Understanding domestic violence can be difficult for some who have not experienced the terror or know someone who has.
The survivors I teach share their stories and they are identical to these.
I hope you will take a few moments to see how these women were controlled and many beaten and how survival has brought them a new life.

About lazeejjs

Jonathan McCormick holds a Black Belt in Combat Martial Arts. He is a U.S Marine (Inactive), trained with famed CIA operative Rex Applegate and Ultimate Fighter Champion Royce Gracie and was the director of the Institute of Defense Tactics. He is a former member of the American Society of Law Enforcement Trainers and worked with members of various law enforcement agencies in the areas of suspect control and officer safety. He has written for law enforcement magazines BlueLine (www.blueline.ca) and Twenty-Four-Seven and has been a guest writer for the Vancouver Province. “Wyoming Secrets”, “30,000 Secrets”, “Santa Barbara Secrets” and The “J” Team Series are inspirational novels which focus on women who feel overwhelmed by the threat of violence in their lives. View the Series
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1 Response to “After you left, how was your life different?”

  1. I have six female colleagues who lament about women doing this. It drives them crazy that these apologizers have so little confidence they have to apologize. A week with my colleagues would change them or reading “Barkley Sound Secrets”.

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